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soulsoother35 Profile Information

Love Hard or Not at All
Age 51 From Charlotte, North Carolina - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Would Describe Myself As  
A little about me...
This is an update for those that have graced my page with your presence in the past and an introduction for those just tuning in... As of October 2009 I am a CANCER SURVIVOR X2... By the grace of God I am still here and loving every moment of it... The new look is short and to the point.... I have worn tressels down my back for over 15 years and it took for me to loose my hair to truly appreciate ones own inner beauty. Don't get me wrong there's no self hate here just a reality check in.. I have always been a strong woman however when faced with ones own immortality you realize that which is truly important... Therefore I am not the typical 36 year old woman... I require a man of depth, strong character and the ability to realize I have been through my share... So come correct or don't come at all... My new Motto is GO HARD OR GO HOME.... Life truly is a gift not a garauntee so live like it EVERYDAY... Gentlemen if you are here please know I have been through enough negativity in this life... So if you bring nothing positive please don't bother... WORDS TO LIVE BY.... "THE WILL OF GOD WILL NEVER TAKE YOU WHERE THE GRACE OF GOD CAN'T PROTECT YOU".
Sign  
Scorpio

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Athletic
My Height Is  
5' 3 (1.6 m)
My Eyes Are  
Brown
My Ethnicity Is  
African American
My Marital Situation Is  
Divorced
I Have Kids  
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids  
Not Sure
My Best Feature Is  
Lips
Body Art  
Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is  
Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These  
No pets
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is  
Full-time
My Speciality Is  
Other
My Job Title Is  
Customer Service Specialist
I Make This Much In A Year  
$15,000USD To $29,999USD
I Live  
Alone
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
No

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Brain
My Social Behavior Is  
Observant, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Sports, Music, Movies, Family, Dining, Theater, Cooking
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
Simple... Candelight Picnic..
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Jet Skiing
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Someone They Want To Be, Cool, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is  
Christian
I Attend Services  
Once A Week
My Political Views Are  
Democrat
My Goal In Life Is  
To be a better woman tomorrow than the woman I was yesterday.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Science Fiction, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Jazz, Soul, Gospel
When I Read, I Always Read  
Fiction, Horror, Mystery, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Dinner in or out, bowling, concerts, plays, learning to shoot pool, anything to do with the beach.. BBQ's and picnics...

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?  
I'm looking for a man that knows who he is in life already. One that can give me what I need and appreciate all that I am willing to do to ensure our happiness. Please know that relationships are not purely about what you need. They are about what you both need and how you are willing to balance the two. Selflessness instead of selfishness. Love, patience and honesty are the fundamentals of a strong foundation. "What are you standing on?"
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed
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